One Big Family: Bissell Participants Share what Family Means to Them
Most people who visit Bissell Centre can immediately tell that the people we help have a special bond with one another. Carol, who performs once a month in our Drop-in Centre with her Aboriginal women’s drumming circle notes “They treat each other like brothers and sisters, moms and dads.” Diane, a long-time volunteer, also senses a special connection among the people here. “When I don’t come, I miss the people in the Drop-in Centre. They’re always stopping us and talking to us,” she says. “It’s like a family.”
The phrase “like a family” is often used by staff, volunteers, and especially by the participants themselves. But around Bissell, the word family does not always refer to people who are related by blood.
In honour of Family Day, we asked our participants about their understanding of the word “family.” Here are their answers.
Q: What does the word “family” mean to you?
“Family means being close and loving to your children, wife, or husband, and making sure that their needs are met.” – Candace
“Family is unity. It’s love. It’s not feeling lonely in this world.” – Dina
“Family is my world. My girls keep me strong and show me the value of life.” – Krystal
“I would say family is like a team. They know each other very well, they can depend on each other. These are the people whom you can depend on, and you can rely on them in any situation.” – Shalini
Q: How has being at Bissell Centre shaped your sense of family?
“Bissell Centre made me feel that I have another family outside my ownâ€¦ It gives me a sense of belonging.” – Billy
“Bissell Centre strengthens us as a family. [It] helps us build a better future.” – Davina
“My son and daughter have had an amazing experience [at the daycare]â€¦ My children see you all as family. I see so much good here.” – Angela
“Bissell Centre has given us a sense of belonging, tradition, and foundation to start from. The staff has encouraged us to grow and always gives us something to look forward to.” – Kayla
“I don’t know what I would have done without all of the staff [at Bissell]. Look! Now I am sitting in my own home. I consider ALL of the staff to be my family.” – Judy
“Bissell Centre is a big support for immigrants like us. We are a low-income family, and Bissell has given lots of resources, like clothing, diapers, and toys for the kids.” – Shalini
We’ve watched our family at Bissell Centre grow and change for over 100 years thanks to your support. Thank you for helping us assist families of all kinds in our community.